How to Perform Cunnilingus

Did you know that women can experience different kinds of orgasms and can even have multiple orgasms? Unfortunately, a lot of women can go years without an orgasm from their partner, and we all know how hard it is to please a woman. Here are ten ideas about how to perform cunnilingus to pleasure her better and increase the chances that she’ll reach climax. Try them out next time and see if you can give her multiple orgasms.

1. Start outside the bedroom – Want to boost the chances she’ll orgasm? When was the final time you surprised her with a little drawing, letter or flowers and sent these phones her at work? Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women on because love and lovemaking are interconnected inside a woman’s brain. Do this and you can bet-your-bottom-dollar you will be doing more than just eating dinner when she walks in!

2. Relax her – It’s very hard for women to orgasm if they’re stressed. Give her a quick back massage. Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt off the tension.

3. Ignore the vagina – Did you know that prolonged foreplay actually increases the likelihood of her coming? That’s right. By kissing, caressing and touching her LONGER, you’ll build the sexual tension and frequently the anticipation will be very powerful.

4. Change your focus – If you focus all of your attention on the woman first, you’ll make love to her much more passionately. Consider it! If you’ve finished first and choose to help her come, you won’t possess the enthusiasm and passion that’s needed to keep her hot and turned on.

5. Tip to keep going longer – Of course the first step to help her reach orgasm is as simple as not coming. The best way I have found to not come is: Penetrate as normal and when you feel like you’re about to come, simply move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a hula hoop) and wait until the “little guys” subside again. Now continue pleasuring her.

6. Don’t use lubricants – Women have an all natural lubricant that fills the vagina if they are turned on. By using a product substitute, you’re only fooling yourself. Without products, you’ll instantly know if situations are working; but with them, you cant ever be sure.

7. Never too much clitoris – Did you know that once you’ve stimulated the clitoris for a while, a little thing known as the clitoral hood will actually come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation? ( And no, I’m not making this up!) The thing is, once the clitoris is fully stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next, whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.

8. Find and stimulate the G spot – The G-spot is really a zone that feels like the rooftop of your mouth and is located about 2 inches within the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with a love position that can help hit the G-spot.

9. Use the best position – Not all love positions are made equal. The very best one for women is the reverse missionary (woman on the top). This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.

10. Give her oral sex ­ The single best way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by going down on her (cunnilingus). While in the beginning I didn’t believe it, countless research has been done to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much more satisfying for women than intercourse is.

Try the ABC’s with your tongue, ask what she likes, and mix it up with lots of different movements! However be cautious! With over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything there is to know before poking your tongue around there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even worse, spoil the mood.

So there you have it ­- 10 ways on how to perform cunnilingus that you can start using right away. Pretty soon you’ll know how to make a girl orgasm every time, and when you are able to give women the most earth-shattering sexual experience of their lives, your whole life will change.